Okay, I can't guarantee it will be the person of your dreams, I'm not Patty from Millionaire Matchmaker, but I can at least help you out with my 8 simple steps for scoring a fun and exciting date this weekend. I have learned from my own "what not to do" experiences, like spending most of High School growing out my mullet and thinking a 3 minute walk to my corner store to buy hot chips, was exercise.
Step 1. You have to love yourself before anyone can love you. Work on the things about you, that get you down. If you can't, then embrace them, because they are what make you who you are. Mine was my weight, I started exercising and not only did weight fall off, but I felt healthy and great all round. So never underestimate the power of a breezy jog or a Zumba class.
Step 2. Spoil yourself - get a spray tan or a new hair do. It's the bounce of confidence you get from this, that you will get you noticed.
Step 3. Smile. If I knew the art of seduction was as simple as a smile, I would have had boys lining up a long time ago. Smiling instantly makes you more beautiful and approachable.
Step 4. Don't be afraid to ask someone out. Haven't you read all those inspirational quotes like, "You aren't going to get anywhere standing still". You have to take control, in order to make things happen. Plus, even if it doesn't work out the way you want, you are still paying that person a massive compliment and it can be your good deed for the day.
Step 5. Don't just ask anyone out. Sure, I want you to get that steamy and sexy date this weekend too, but if you ask any regular Joe or Sally out, you are playing with lotto odds. You want to at least like the person or have a strong physical attraction to them. That way the date has amazing potential!
Step 6. Pick a good date idea. I generally play it safe and go The Movies option (you can check my review Event - Gold Class), that way there is still talking involved, but you have the movie distracting you both mutually and something to talk about afterwards. A night time mini road trip is also a big plus, intimate and you can basically go anywhere you want.
Step 7. Pick an outfit that suits the date. Obviously if you are going fishing, then wearing a formal dress might be a little awkward. I once went on a date bowling and was wearing a mini skirt. All I can say is thank god I wasn't wearing my granny undies.
Step 8. Prepare yourself. Have topics to talk about if you get a lot of awkward silences. I don't mean, make a slideshow of great first date topics and pull your laptop out, over coffee with him/her and present this to them. Again, I learned this the hard way, by doing something similar. If you haven't been able to tell by now, I'm not the best at playing it cool.
Now Ladies and Gents, Have yourself a good weekend *cheeky face*