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9 Things to do to Attract Love in Your Life

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by Stella Bella (subscribe)
Freelance, event organiser, food tour guide, lifestyle designer. The organizer of the largest bushwalking and social community in Australia. So why not sponsor a walk to promote your business with my group?
Published February 5th 2013
Be a powerful love magnet

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We all deserve love with someone special in our life. It is one of the most beautiful feelings on earth that keeps us puzzled, desired and smitten. Here are nine things that can help you to attract the love of your life. It takes 21 days to form a good habit, so I suggest you have a separate calendar as the Love Magnet Calendar; everyday when you do the exercise, mark a red heart on the date, soon you will feel the love in the air and eventually that love comes when you least expect it.

1. Love yourself

I know it might sound cliché that you can't love anyone else until you love yourself, but it is the foundation for any type of healthy relationship, Whether it is a relationship with your friend or a relationship with your partner, self love is the foundation, where you can really radiate and spread the love around you.

2. Be grateful

Count your blessings everyday. The more energy you focus on the happy and blissful moments in your life, the more you will attract them into your life. Say thanks to the universe for everything that you have received, this powerful exercise will attune you with the positive energy around you and allow you to get access to the infinite power within.

3. Define what exactly you want

You wouldn't go to a restaurant and tell the waitress to bring whatever you can have for lunch. You are ordering a partner from the universe. So write a list of attributes, personalities, hobbies and even physical features that you want in a partner and know exactly what you want in a relationship.

4. Create a love alter

Your love alter serves as the vision board of your ideal relationship. So why do you need a partner? What kind of relationship do you want? What is the ideal lifestyle do you want to create together with your partner? Define it, grow it and own it. So spend 5 minutes a day visualising that you already have owned it, imagining how great the feeling of being in love is, the warmth of the touch, the gentle tone of the voice, the strong bond between you two. When you imagine it so real, it will become real.

5. Be your own romance therapist

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Being romantic is the juicy part of the relationship, the icing on top of the cake, which can keep your relationship fresh and fun. Even without a partner, you can start to design your special romantic nights, getaways, sweet little things you can do for your partner. Maybe you can get nice notebooks, or a nice folder in your computer where you can collect all your romantic ideas, so what do you want to call it? Please check" Top 5 Romantic Dinner Ideas" and "Top 5 Romantic Date Ideas"

6. Be the person you want to be with

By being the person you want to be with, you set yourself on the same wavelength with the other person. If you want someone who is patient, learn to be patient yourself. In terms of long-term relationships, similarities attract more than the opposites. A wise friend of mine, who has been married for 30 years told me that, focus on nurturing the friendship with your partner, then the relationship; learning to be a good friend to your partner is a solid foundation to grow the relationship.

7. Read books about love, relationship and dating

There are many books on the market to help you understand about love and relationships. Maybe you think love can't be learned, it has to be felt, but love is still a form of relationship that we have to deal with when there is a challenge ahead. By understanding love better, you will be able to deal with love issues better. I also enjoy reading some fun, light-hearted pocket booklets, such as "365 Great Things About Being in Love: A Perpetual Calendar" Daymaker Inspirational Gifts and "The Secret Language of Love: A Visual Treasury of Love Through the Ages" by Megan Tresidder.

8. Have a wonderful life

Having a life partner can't make your happy, but can make your happier! You are not two uncompleted beings coming to complete each other's life; you both are complete beings coming to enrich each other's life. You have to be the source of your own happiness. When you live your life and your dreams passionately, nothing can stop you to get what you want in life. So stop feeling miserable being a single, go out there and enjoy your life to the fullest, you got nothing to lose.

9. Wear rose quartz and hematite stones

In crystal world, the rose quartz is known as the love stone. It has the vibration of love and helps to promote all kinds of love; self-love, nurturing love and romantic love. Hematite stones are magnetic stones with healing property, wearing these two stones will set you on a magnetic field to attract love in your life.

A new adventure awaits, so be prepared for the journey to love.
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